Dr. John Adrian Mulder.
Pioneer. Photographer. Poet. Palliative Care Extraordinaire. Personable. Presciverience.
Privileged to be a friend, colleague, and a confidant.
Positivity. Possibly from another world or lifetime.
Passionate. Peaceful. Patient. Perceptive. Philanthropic. Perservering. Palpable. Phenomenon.
If that is just the tip of the iceberg of the P words everyone that ever encountered you can say in the letter P, imagine how many more words we want to say….
How many more words, we wish we knew, how better to say thank you.
You are a paragon of how to live.
How to love, how to die, and how our grief can sound like an ability, like a personification of the prevailing winds. Even when we are lost in its storm.
I have had the greatest professional privilege to call myself your pupil.
Yet I would trade it all for our friendship. Yet that word doesn’t start with P. And you gave me that from the Preface.
I named my first born child after you, Adrian shines to this day. I remember the day you and Lisa got to meet Adrian at the River like it was yesterday.
I also remember so many words of wisdom, so many photos you took “in the storms”, so many songs of trials.
I will share one of each here.
Words: The eye of the Hurricane: In palliative care we need to enter the eye of the hurricane, the storm is swarming all around us. We can feel the prevailing winds. Yet we need to stay in the eye long enough so everyone can find peace amongst her storm.
It is here and only here that we work, and we must work no matter the storm.
Photos: You gifted me a photo at the Grand Haven Pier at Sunset. This photo was depicted right after not one, not two, but 3 tornadoes passed the pier.
You ordered the print on metal, so I could pass your message of peace within the eye of the storm,
on now, and for generation to come.
Songs: Grace is Enough (written by a band of brothers and sisters awaiting lung transplants)
Storms won’t be still
When floods overtake
And all hope is lost
-How do you come back
When the line has been crossed?
We are broken from loss
And from temptation—
Where do we find our hope
In salvation——
We all have pain
We all have sorrow
Some are redeemed
And Some let it go
When you empty yourself of all that you want
You can be filled with all you need.
Grace is enough
Simple and true
Grace is enough
To save me and you.
Postface: I will meet you in the eye once again.
With all of my love: Danny