Good friends must not always be together; It is the feeling of oneness when distant that proves a lasting friendship.
--Susan P. Schultz
For the last 20 years my best friend has almost always been at least 500 miles from me. We only see each other 2 or 3 times a year, but always manage a phone call every week or so. The struggles in life he's helped me with are too numerous to list. Now, I'm not sure what to do, what to feel or think.
Of the many memories I have of Jon, the one I keep coming back to the past couple of days is from the night before my wedding. Jon was my best man and stayed with me to make sure I didn't "skip town" (as he put it). We drank a six-pack (O.K., maybe a little more) of St. Pauli Girl and listened to Dire Straits on his boombox all night. God, we could just sit for hours and listen to the Making Movies album, we knew all the words by heart. I listened to it last night. "The sky is crying, the streets are full of tears". I never really knew what that lyric meant until now. I'll never listen to that album again. I love you man.##imported-begin##John Swierczewski##imported-end##