In Honor of my Mother-In-Law, Lucille Parcheta by Susan Kliger Parcheta
I met Lucille and Frank in 1963 not long after I fell in love with their son Terry at a Western Michigan University “mixer.” (dance)  Lucille was, above all, a wonderful mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, mother-in-law, wife, and homemaker.  She had the most patience and calmness of anyone I had ever encountered.  She was unassuming and non-judgmental and accepted me and others with equanimity.  When Terry was in Vietnam, our baby son Roger and I lived with Lucille and Frank so I was able to be a part of their family and experience firsthand their kindness.  I have many wonderful memories of Lucille:  the two of us in the kitchen cooking—and talking—together; her pies and cookies were delicious and her efficient canning remarkable, the best bread and butter pickles in the world; her lemonade and excellent sage turkey dressing delicious; the beautiful, embroidery-enhanced Sun Bonnet quilts she created for her grands and great grands; the donated quilts and mittens, especially to organizations helping less-fortunate woman; the marvelous pink sweater set she knitted for me; the lovely turquoise knitted cape for our daughter Robyn; the knitted mittens for both Robyn and Roger (and dozens of others); the pajamas she made for each of the grands; a beautifully embroidered shirt for Roger.  Lucille had a green thumb and a table filled with blossoming violets.  Due to her diligence and homemade cleaning products, the windows of their house always sparkled.  Perhaps her longevity was due in part to her “exercise”--lugging basketfuls of wet clothes up the basement stairs to the drying lines in their backyard.  Or maybe her good health was a consequence of her love of dancing the polka, square dancing, and playing golf.  Her competitive nature revealed itself when playing cards—how many times did 6-8 of us “sisters” sit with Lucille at the kitchen table in Grand Haven and play solitaire.  It was the highlight of our day!  Lucille often won, and she was so sharp she was able to notice when one of us needed to play a card—we think mostly to assure her winning!  She was such a card shark, and we avoided sitting to her right knowing her turn came after ours.  I was fortunate when Frank, Lucille, Terry and I played Euchre, she was my partner!  She was fun to be with as I experienced early on when the family would all go canoeing.  I am grateful we were able to spend so much time with Lucille and Frank--even after moving to Florida.  Lucille was an amazing woman, and I miss her.  Her legacy lives on in Terry, Roger, Robyn, and our grandchildren, Jake, Chloe, and Dylan.