When I think of Richard, I clearly recall the uncles at the LaGrande family holidays (they had married into this family of 4 strong women, who most often were managing the children, the food, and the schedule). So Richard, John, Marv and my dad, Rollie would all engage in some male bonding rituals that involved calling each other "cat" and seeing who could "outcool" who... yes, this was quite a long time ago, but it is still warm and vivid in my memory.
Much love to you Laurie, Mark, and Ryan from Northern Wisconsin.
Jocelyn (with Joel and Maria)