So many special memories from this dearest of friends come to mind. I'll never forget the day we met, trying out to be musical clowns in a theatre production for CMU. Winning the part of flutist clowns, we became close friends. Sara shared her friendship group, The Ecumenical Singers, which became my close Christian group at CMU, creating many wonderful friendships. Our times with Rev. David VanDam and his wife, Marilu, were special memories, and provided tremendous opportunities for spiritual growth as college students seeking to better understand our faith. Sara was a 'town girl', with a father who was Dept. Chair of Health Education and mother employed at CMU. Their family became my second family, and the fabulous evenings of many college friends crowded into their small piano room, singing, laughing and playing were some of the best memories of my college life. There was never an end to the discussions around the dinner table, the fun of having another family with sisters and a brother. Bill, a 7th grader, would play numerous pranks on Kathy McAlpine and myself the summer we stayed with the Myer Family as summer CMU students. We laughed till tears ran down our face!
After graduation from CMU, Sara and I shared a rickety home at MSU with many other students while she went to medical school and I worked on my master's degree; she met and married the love of her life during her medical internship; I met mine - and our families shared so many wonderful adventures. The day she announced she was expecting Brian we shed tears of joy; later when she got the call that Deanna had been born and was ready for adoption Sara called in a panic - she had nothing 'pink'! I met her on their way to give her 'something pink' for this newborn baby girl who became my beloved god-daughter.
As couples we went on a great medical cruise, where Sara said she felt like we were back i college sharing great times in the dorm! We took our families to San Francisco, hiked Yosemite, spent many evenings sharing great meals at each other's homes, went to medical galas and had the fun of getting all dressed up for the big event. Our two husbands played golf, solved many medical 'problems', and enjoyed our many adventures.
When Sara's cancer became 'active' we cried together, texted updates, prayed, and spent whatever time we could as special hours, not knowing when these might end. Our trip to Scottsdale in March was a magical four days of laughter, adventures, and even a 2.5 hour hike! We shopped for new clothing, explored beautiful jewelry stores, ate ice cream, and had a Middle Eastern feast.
Now that God has called this dearest of friends home, my eyes are filled with tears and my heart aches with loneliness. Our total family grieves this tremendous loss. Yet, I know that I was blessed, as was my husband and family, with the gift of friendship we have shared with Sara, her loving and wonderful husband, Dave, her children and her amazing extended family.
Thank you, Sara and family, for these gifts.
We love you,
Dave, Cheryl, Rachel, John and Lindsay