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Chad, it has been over a year now and it sti;; seems so unreal at times. You will forever be loved amd miss and never far away from my thoughts and heart. Mom##imported-begin##Mom DuShane##imported-end##
Birth date: Jun 22, 1981 Death date: Jun 8, 2008
Chad Daniel DuShane, age 26, of Spring Lake passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, June 8, 2008. He was born June 22, 1981, in Grand Rapids to Albert and Nina (Johns) DuShane. Chad was a graduate of Spring Lake High School and a 200 Read Obituary
Chad, it has been over a year now and it sti;; seems so unreal at times. You will forever be loved amd miss and never far away from my thoughts and heart. Mom##imported-begin##Mom DuShane##imported-end##
Nina and family~ I just had a very beautiful thought of Chad and THAT smile and wanted you to know that I feel that today! I hope the anniversary of losing Chad only made you realize (even more!) that he IS still making people feel his grin! We hope you are all well and enjoying life the way Chad would want you to! God bless... Love Kricket##imported-begin##Mrs. J (Kricket Jackson)##imported-end##
Chad, Where do i Begin. We only became close friends within the last year or so, and I was so glad we did, Colleen and I are deeply saddened by your unexpected departure from us. We would like to extend our warmest sympathies to your family and friends. I would like to take this moment to tell you Kathy, that I am so grateful to have gotten to know you while being your neighbor and know that if you need anything please let us know. I know that these times are hard , but the Lord has a better plan for all of us, and he's waiting for us to come home. I know chad is in a better place now, and we will always feel his smile, charisma , love and happiness around us. We are so sorry for your loss Kathy, and Chad's parents. We were so excited to be able to share some of the excitement that he had and you both shown when he was ready to propose. That is the last thing i remember is that great smile on both your faces that day you left to head west. I will never forget that. We would like to just say we are sorry once again during this time of pain and suffering, no parents should ever have to experience this type of trauma. May you guide us always, Chad, looking over us. We will always remember you!
Sincerely,
The Seybert Family
Fenton, MI##imported-begin##Doug and Colleen Seybert##imported-end##
Chad, the love of my life. I cannot express in words how empty I feel without you. Even though you are not next to me in body, I feel your love surround me even now. I am so blessed to have shared in your life and love, if only for a short while. Here is a poem by ee cummings that I think expresses my feelings:
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)
You have made me a better person, and I will spend the rest of my life trying to make you more and more proud of me. Baby, I will love you always. Infinity eons!##imported-begin##Kathy Tyer##imported-end##
Chad,
Sorry it took so long to do this but it doesn't come easy to say what we are feeling. We love you so much and I say present tense because that feeling will never go away. Your sudden goodbye isn't easy, but to say that you will always be in our hearts and Alexis, Chase and Alivia all miss you deeply. I want to ask the question why sometimes yet know that God always has a purpose of wanting the “best” next to his side. I wrote this for you and know that you are never far from our hearts. As we celebrate you life, and mourn your death, your love and spirit are with us. Know that you’ll live on in Chase, he is just like you, always making friends, loving spirit and personality and always has to be in style, and the love that radiants is amazing.
Today was the day you left us alone
Your dates and name just left in stone
And scriptures will talk about the love
While we look at the sky and see the dove
The zest you had for family, friends, and life
Knowing that this is just a stepping stone in strife
But never will we let your memories end
We are all meant for different passage on our bend.
That warm day in June when you were born
Has come to take you away to be with your lord
To find everlasting peace to watch over us with care
The love that shouts out to you up there
Will always be like a thorn in our spine
And the realization then comes inline
We were never meant to stay on this place we know as home
As we are only leant here for awhile we move to our rightful dome
Your beautiful heart, charm, and personality will only make it hurt more
But remember you are walking with no pain forever more.
We love you Chad, and we will always remember
You touched so many with your love, charm and splendor
You memory will always be in our hearts
And we will never ever be apart.(shannan dushane 2008 copyright)
Love you always
Carl, Shannan, Alexis, Chase, & Alivia##imported-begin##Carl & Shannan DuShane##imported-end##
Chad and Kathy's families,
It has been a week since I received the telephone call from Scott with the sad news of Chad's death. I myself, needed the time to soul search, to cry, to reminiscence, and to just talk with Scott daily about life, it's circumstances, and how solutions to events such as these, do not lend themseves to easy understanding. I recall the minister at Scott's wedding speaking of the true bond this group of guys have. He went on to explain that it went beyond grade school, high school, and college. That bond of frienship amongst them still continues today. It is a gift they continue to give one another, to remain close. They will continue to stay in your families lives. If you need anything, they will be there. God's love hopes for the best, even in the face of adversity. It hopes through disappointments, never giving up. What comfort it is to our trouble - filled hearts, eventhough we can't always understand what God is doing. Chad would want us to take what he gave us and use it to better ourselves and to help others. So today, if you have not hugged someone, please do so. If you have not given a kiss, please do so. If you have not told someone they are loved, please do so. This is what Chad would want us to do. Do this in fond remembrance of him. My sons and I will hold his memories close...God Bless and With Love, Kathy Zonnebelt, Vero Beach, Florida.##imported-begin##Kathy Zonnebelt##imported-end##
Chad,
You are the light of Aunt Kathy's life. Your love and smile always kept me going, thank you. You loved with all your heart and never were you ashamed to show it. Your leaving us so soon will be hard to take but know Aunt Kathy will keep you forever with her. I loved you so.....
I am thankful for the time we shared and I trust God to hold you within his wings now. May his Angels be blessed with your presence. Your happiness and joy for living life to its fullness will stay in my heart.
Although I do not understand the "why" I do believe we will laugh and smile together in Heaven.
You were a gift taken early but you will never be forgotten. I will honor you and chersih you always.
Aunt Kathy "loves your heart"....remember.##imported-begin##Kathy Johns##imported-end##
I will always remember Chad as being the super funny and happy guy through- out our elementary and high school years. He was such a good person with a wonderful smile. Chad will never be forgotten and his vibrant spirit will always live on.##imported-begin##Lindsay Munch##imported-end##
Chad I don't even know where to start. When I heard about what had happened and thought back to HS and GV days, everything that came into my mind about you involved a smile or a laugh. You were always the one that would go out of your way on campus to come over, high 5 me and ask how things were going. I always enjoyed running into you and randomly grabbing a bite to eat before a class and just BSing. This wall shows truly what a great man you were. I will miss not running into you around town and knowing that you'll have some hilarious remark when we speak. There is a hole in SL without you, but it still has a smile in it that you will leave with all of us forever. Rest in peace my friend.##imported-begin##Steve Spinner##imported-end##
Chad, My first memories of you are next door to the Barth's house. I was just a teenager then, but here were these cute little boys. But becoming part of the family and having you as a cousin, will always stay with me. You will always be my little Luke Skywalker, the boy who ate too much and made a mess all over my living room (haha). The way you teased me, the way you made everyone smile, your Carlton dance, but most of all just being you! I feel very lucky knowing such a wonderful man. I will miss you very much! I Love you Chad Daniel!##imported-begin##Ranae Wood ##imported-end##