I struggle with the reality that I am over 1,300 miles away and am unable to say my final farewells to my precious Aunt Donnie. She touched the lives of so very many people in a multitude of different ways. As I sit here reflecting, memories of the "traveling" Christmas' in FreeSoil come to mind. On occasion, she would join us as we celebrated from Aunt Clara's to Aunt Virginia's to Uncle Buddy's to (my Dad) Uncle Sonny's. The celebration of food, laughter, accordians and singing make my heart happy, but mostly the sense of family is what I cherish most...and what I miss most. The annual reunions down by "the property" on the river were always something to look forward to in the summer. Who would get thrown in the river this time? Joe and Julia's offspring were the center of the celebration and how we loved to see them laugh, joke and reminisce together. My trips to Muskegon and the house on Larch Street in the summer as a kid. Her helping Rita and I make clothes for our Barbie dolls. Waking up to Auntie's voice wanting Rita to get up and go to the store for her because she needed some baking powder for whatever she was making. I remember going for her several times myself! Much later when she was living on Barclay, I would pick her up occasionally on my way North so she could visit with Aunt Virginia. I loved those trips from Muskegon to FreeSoil. We would talk non-stop. Mostly, she would tell stories of "the farm" and growing up there. Somethings I would know from my Dad, but sometimes he left out the things he probably would rather I not have known...mostly silly things. Aunt Donnie shared those with me and we would laugh and I would swear never to tell anyone. My last visit with her was in the summer. Although we did not talk as much, I knew she was happy to see me and I so enjoyed my time with her. As I rose to leave, I leaned over and gave her a kiss and told her I loved her. And her final words to me as I walked out the door will always be with me..."I love you more....." I will miss you, Auntie, but just know that you are having one heck of a reunion up there in Heaven with all those you loved who left before you. And to Marilyn, Elaine, Tom, Gloria and Rita, my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your cherished Mother. You have so many memories to keep her in your heart. Remember...with smiles.
Love you all ~ Leanne