Gram was the most amazing woman I've ever met. She taught me how to cherish and love my family. She was one of the most adventurous lady I've ever met and the day I realized how hardcore Gram really was when she got tired of Reta Benham getting pumped up to jump off the bridge. " Gram said, dammit Reta, and crawled out of her kayak walked up the trail and jumped off the bridge!" Gram you showed her what was up! Another good memory was when we were down Georgia for Ricky's basic training graduation. There was a huge Southern storm and the cabin that we were staying in the power went out. Rick took Ricky back to his barracks when the power went out. So Reta, Gram and I found the breaker box and we all went in to look at the box like we knew what we were doing. Reta and Gram and I found a flash light went to the breaker box. But when all three of us got to the breaker box nobody wanted to touch it. So I went up to it and acted like I got shocked, Gram slapped me so hard and laughed and said " you little shit!" haha love you so much Gram. You were always there for me when I needed someone to talk too