I met Jon and Zoe through a set of circumstances that had had us recounting the awesomeness for years. We were exactly what each other needed. Living in a rural area can feel isolating, especially for children. We had been hoping and praying for good friends for our kids. If you line them up by age - they are one year apart in a row. Our friendships have just grown over these years -carrying us through good times and terrible times. I can't imagine how I would have made it though without the care of Jon and Zoe. Now our community has to contend with the huge hole left by Jon's absence. It feels unfair.
I wanted to tell some stories about my time with Jon and Zoe but I realize it's all the mundane stuff you do with family. Countless meals, trips the beach, hanging out in the living room, trivia night, board games, camping, vacations, and cookouts. Holidays and festivals. I have more pictures of the kids during our hangouts than I do of Jon. Sleepovers, birthday parties, and sports. Endless basketball and baseball and softball games. The theatre, dave and busters, trampoline parks, and PANDA EXPRESS. Such a GIFT. Maybe now I'll read that used copy of Dune he found for us at the goodwill bins.
Dear Jon,
Grateful for your gentle spirit and kindness. Your sense of humor was a joy to all. Your strength, wisdom, and philosophical mind were all part of what made you such a wonderful friend to have. I learned a lot and pondered even more because of you. Rest in peace my dear friend.
