Pamela Caspari's Obituary
Pamela (David) Caspari, age 74, of Grand Rapids and Spring Lake, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on Friday, January 1, 2021. She was born June 17, 1946 in Trethomas, Wales to Taliesan and Violet (Rich) David.
Pamela had an incredible zest for life. Her smile and positive presence filled a room, her beauty and rich, auburn hair never went unnoticed. She loved her children fiercely, always saying her favorite part of life was being their mom. She never missed an event for them, whether it be a tennis match, soccer game or cheer competition. She was their biggest advocate and cheerleader. As a grandma, or how many of her grandkids affectionally referred to her as “glamma” as she was so glamorous, she maintained her role as biggest fan, attending every function humanly possible. She traveled across the state many times in one day to catch their sporting, academic or band events. She loved being with them, quizzing them on state capitals, teaching them about their Welsh heritage, and taking them on many trips and adventures. She was a staple in their lives and her spirit remains strong within them. Pamela also loved traveling near and far, learning about different cultures and enjoyed sailing throughout the Caribbean. She hosted many dinner parties for her friends and always believed in having a beautiful table setting, filling it with not only exquisite food but interesting conversation and lively music. Pamela had a knack for connecting to people of every age and walk of life. There was not a place, whether it be church or store, that she entered without striking up a conversation with someone. Her positive energy was inspiring. She was always giving of her time and energy to others in need, and enjoyed having her “Sprinkle Fund” to help others, but desired it be done anonymously. Pamela was also a member of St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Grand Rapids and maintained a strong faith. She consistently seemed to find the beauty in others and nature, remaining passionately optimistic about life.
She is survived by her three children: John (Michelle) David of Grand Rapids, Scott (Rose) David of Traverse City, and Meaghan (Matt) Kovacs of Troy; stepchildren, Heather (Ed) Lynch and Michelle (Jim) Wilhelm; fourteen grandchildren: Ashley, Katelyn, and Lauren David; Sarah, Lilianna, and Adam David; Nate, Drew, and Julia Kovacs; Bailey, Ryan Lynch; and Sophia, Alex, and Elise Wilhelm; partner Midge Verplank; sisters, Ann Coe, and Beryl Cordy; and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband, John Caspari; sister, June; brother, Arthur; and Uncle Smitty (Urban Smith).
In keeping with her wishes a private family service will take place. Memorial contributions in memory of Pamela maybe given to Cystic Fibrosis Foundation or St. Thomas the Apostle Church in Grand Rapids. Please sign the family’s online guestbook at http://www.sytsemafh.com.
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