Grandpa Roy” lived a full life and accomplished what he set out to do. He kept "it real". This guy was a preacher, carpenter, hunter, fisher, lived for a while in Alaska, and was even a horse back rider. I was fortunate to have lots of great memories with him…like when I was 14 & 15 I would spend Sunday nights with him during the summer. Grandpa would preach, we would get ice cream after at the "whippie dip", then watch john wayne movies at his house….every Sunday night he would get his 357 stub nose magnum out and let me hold it while we watched cowboy movies (thats nirvana for a 14 year old). Next day he would abrasively awake me at 6am (he loved tipping over the couch I was sleeping on), and would then make me eat raisin brand cereal (yuck). We would leave by 6:30 am and pick up 50 cement blocks, then he would drive 35 miles an hour up to “the farm” in Hesperia (I would look out the rear view mirror in embarassment as there would be a long line of traffic behind us) where we would unload the blocks and start HAND DIGGING (in clay) the footings for the house he was building. Then we would go horseback riding. He even let me shoot that gun once. My ears rang for hours, all the while he had that smirk on his face. I cant wait to do this to my grandchild.
Oh yes, I would be remiss if I didnt mention for three years in a row he "let me" drag out his deer from the woods he shot in Hesperia. And yes, he had that same smirk on his face each year as he had filled his tag.... and i had not!
Grandpa had way of looking at you that could leave you feeling a bit bare. He created environments, as he wasnt much of a pencil pusher. He was the best preacher i've ever heard, and i have heard alot! His messages had "depth", and he spoke of the truth. He was a teacher and he impacted the lives of so many. Thats a great legacy.
BUT....His legacy wasnt just "his" alone. Doris swept into his life, bringing "fresh air" into my grandpas lungs. It was as though he was "alive" again when she "arrived". This wonderful woman engaged him. She gave him a purpose and a passion. Through her, he lived many years longer than one would have anticipated. Thank you Doris, for all you have done.
Grandpa's with our maker now. Perhaps playing his trumpet...perhaps scoring the music. Whatever he is doing, if he saw us crying he would look at us with those eyes and say "what are you crying about"?