Birth date: Dec 12, 1941 Death date: Jan 28, 2020
Sandra Lee Ferney, age 78, passed away on Tuesday, January 28, 2020 at The Poppen Residence. She was born on December 12, 1941 to Harvey and Bertha (Wilkinson) Matthews in Muskegon. Sandra was a member at Fruitport Congregational Read Obituary
Shannon and Jeff. I was so sorry to see of the passing of your Mom. She was a very Special lady. She is now at peace with Bob. Cathy Ferney
Shannon, my sincerest sympathy in the recent passing of your mom. I have been keeping her in my prayers that God would be merciful when he finally called her home. I also genuinely prayed that God would soften your mom's heart towards me as I loved her and wanted to reconcile our past before it was too late. Your mom was a good sister to me and I only wished her well and asked for God's for both of us. The Bible says that we can't be forgiven if we don't forgive. I made my peace, I just wish that we could have gotten back together and have a sisterly relationship that we both deserved. Thank you for including Ted and me in her obituary, I was very touched by her wish that we do random acts of kindness in lieu of flowers. I would ask you to put you feelings aside and know that I am very sorry for anything I may have said or done that hurt your mom, I couldn't get her to open up to me and tell me what I did that made her feel so bitter towards me. I would like to be welcome at her memorial service when she is laid to rest later this year.
I ask that you open your heart and allow me to be a part of your life, so many years have been wasted on ill feelings between us that I would like to made amends to you and ask for your forgiveness.
I have many happy memories of your mom and would like to share the kindness that she showed me before out falling out.
My phone number is 231-799-8228 and my e-mail is teddeb74@comcast.net if you will respond to my request. I give you my promise as God is my Witness that I will not betray or hurt you. I wanted to send a sympathy card but don't have your address.
I pray that God will soften your heart towards me and allow us to share what time we have left to be family. I will abide by your decision and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers this is my solemn vow to you. I will continue to keep you in my prayers and hope you will reciprocate them. All my love and I wish you happiness for a beautiful future. I am not the person your mom felt that I was, I made my share of mistakes and have asked for God's Forgiveness and now I ask you for yours. You are lucky to have had your mom for the years God gave the two of you, cherish your memories and do as your mom requested and that is to do random acts of kindness, I am reaching out to you to let you know that I do really love your mom whether she believed it or not I don't know but I think she made herself Right with God and now a healing can begin.
God's Blessings,
Aunt Debbie
P.S. I am on Messenger and Facebook under Debbie Matthews Hobby
Sandy was a great friend to my Mom, Jean, for over 60 years. They enjoyed so many great times together. She will be greatly missed. So sorry for your loss.
It was so nice to be able to spend a few moments with you Sandy, this past Sunday. You will be missed but never forgotten. We shared many a Friday evening with you and Bob eating out and just handing together. Also our times together with you in Florida. So happy you made it back to Michigan and Fruitport. Ken & Sue Cisek
